2023年的9月中国厦门，第三届中欧医院管理学科建设人才培养全球论坛当天晚上的开幕式。华中科技大学同济医院的刘继红院长就坐在我的旁边。他很好奇地问我：“今天晚上。我看见来了很多德国国家科学院的院士和这么多欧洲关键学术领袖，我发现他们都非常尊重你，都非常佩服你，你永远都站在C位，他们与你像老朋友般交往。我很想问你一个很私人的问题：“其一，你的丈夫是不是一个非常非常了不起的人？其二，你的丈夫是不是德国人？”当时我的旁边坐着慕尼黑大学附属医院的Stief院长，他也是德国国家科学院的院士。我当着他们所有人的面公开地回答了刘继红院长的提问。其一，我是专业的职业女性，我是一个不靠丈夫在这个社会上生存的女人。我长这么大，我只用过我父亲和我家族的钱，我不用任何一个男人的钱。我出生在一个非常好的家庭。是我的父亲和家族给我的钱创办的这家公司，在广州我们家族就有100多个人，他们在各自领域都很成功，我们家族的每一个女人都在为工作拼命。其二，我的丈夫不是德国人，到目前为止，我们公司还没有任何一个员工跟任何一个德国人去谈过恋爱或者结婚。其三，在我的家教和文化里，我与任何客户去谈恋爱这都不可以成为我专业职业的一部分。其四，在我们公司的管理章程中有一条很严格的明文规定：我们公司的任何一个员工绝对不允许跟医院的任何一个工作人员谈恋爱或者结婚，如果有此类事件发生，立刻马上就必须离开公司。我们是一家专业的中德合资医疗公司，我们在柏林有大法官为我们做了公证。我们必须在行业中树正面形象和正能量。公司必须合规，这是底线。仁医医疗创始人、世界微创脊柱大师Mayer教授在公司成立之初就请柏林地方法院的院长委托地方法院首席法官Bünning女士亲自做了公证，德意志联邦共和国外交部盖了印章，中华人民共和国驻德意志联邦共和国大使馆参赞周安平做了外事认证。作为一家中德合资公司，我们德国的股东给我签署了终生授权书。我们也办理好了欧元帐户，我们可以合理合规合法向欧洲的所有机构汇款。现场所有中德院长们听完都佩服地五体投地。现在中国最热的一个笑话和谈资就是王石和田朴珺的这种关系。一个是当年的地产大佬，一个是18线小明星。一个没有任何背景的年轻女人本来就是利用大佬资源小三上位。然后现在还天天标榜自己是职业女性。她是啥职业女性？这根本就是一个没有任何本事的女人。这跟职业女性沒有半毛钱的关系。从专业的角度说。这根本谈不上成功，她有什么可成功的？一个真正成功的职业女性，绝对不靠男女关系。一个真正的职业女性，一定是有气质且光芒四射。乱七八糟的男女关系不能成为专业职业的一部分。只有这样我们在任何时候任何地方才有底气面对社会的任何不公。我们是靠自己一步一个脚印把医院和医生的每件工作做好，我们不是尽力而为，我们是全力以赴。这份独立与任何男人无关，我们公司任何女人从来不依靠任何男人。我的上梁正了，下梁也绝对不会歪。什么样的领导就有什么样的兵。这才是真正的职业女性。为什么186位德国国家科学院院士和欧洲关键学术领袖及著名的科学家这么尊重我们？德国是欧盟的老大，他们的医疗绝对的全球第一，他们才是真正现代医学的发源地，所以我们深耕德国，美国连一场疫情都搞不定，死了上百万无辜的人民，英国就是个沒落的国家，加拿大和澳大利亚只能做美国小弟，日本的医疗体系早就崩盘了。与这些国家合作就是既无脑又无能。他们根本不懂什么叫国际医疗。我们公司有8位国际公共关系部门的同事，她们每年用英文要写2.8万封邮件，这些邮件都非常专业，文案非常了不起。每一封邮件都是我在微信上口述，他们英文转发。因为我们为中国医疗做的每一件有意义的事情，这是一个伟大的故事。我们与全球8个国家的186位世界关键学术领袖都有共同的价值观和非凡理想及远大抱负。我们就是要把这种信念坚持下去，深耕胸中。他们每一个人都是我们从2000多名欧洲著名专家之中精挑细选出来的186位人品尊贵内心高雅值得我们中国三甲医院和医生一生尊敬的大师和朋友，我想我们既是工作伙伴又应该是一生的朋友。我们在一起工作很开心很特别。我们还告诉了他们我们积贫积弱的中国只花了40年的时间就成为了全球第二大经济体。我们的新中国是前辈们呕心沥血披荆斩棘浴血奋战建立起来的一个全新的中国。我们每一个中国人就应该为我们可爱的中国做事。无论大小，都有意义。我们这个特别的故事。我们仁医医疗在欧洲非常著名，当然也有我父亲百年的传奇人生。谁能触动人的心灵，谁将无所不能。他们从内心里佩服我们，他们也想为我们的中国三甲医院添砖加瓦。为我们培养更多有全球思考真才实学的优秀医生。工作是为了钱吗？工作是为了更美好的人际关系和幸福。这才是真正的工作。创办一家公司，靠的不是领导者，而是每一个员工可以心甘情愿为了一个伟大的故事而全力以赴。你想有益于社会，最好的法子就是把自己这块材料铸造成器。我们永远年轻，永远热泪盈眶。我们可以从客地面对工作中的任何困难。自爱的女人最叫人的欢喜，我做的可是这个世界上最难的医疗的工作，全世界我们独一份，我们没有对手，我们只有自已。我每年读近百本书，我化着美妆，把每天的日子活得如一部电影，我努力工作，自强不息，直至生命最后一刻。

 On the welcome banquet of the 3rd Sino-Euro Global Forum on Hospital Management, Specialty Construction and Talent Cultivation held in Xiamen, China in 2023, Prof. LIU Jihong, President of the Tongji Hospital of Tongji Medical College of Huazhong University of Science and Technology (HUST) was sitting next to me. He asked me curiously: “Tonight, I’ve seen many members of the German National Academy of Sciences Leopoldina and key academic leaders from Europe. I noticed that they all respect you, admire you, and interact with you like old friends. You always stand in the center. I would like to ask you a personal question: ‘First, is your husband a very important person? Second, is your husband German?’ ” At that time Prof. Stief, the Deputy Medical Director of University Hospital of Munich, and the Member of the German National Academy of Sciences Leopoldina, was also sitting next to me. I openly answered President LIU Jihong’s questions in front of everyone present. Firstly, I’m a professional business woman. I am not a woman who survives in this society by relying on her husband. I have grown up only with my father’s and my family’s money. I don’t use any man’s money except them. I was born into a decent family. It was my father and my family who funded me to start this company. We have over 100 family members in Guangzhou city, and they’re all successful in their respective fields. Every woman in my family is working hard for their jobs. Secondly, my husband is not German. So far, none of the employee in our company has ever been in a relationship or get married to a German. Thirdly, in my family culture, having relationship with any of my customers must not be a part of my professional career. Fourthly, there is a strictly defined term in Gloryren’s company rules and regulations: none of the employee in our company is allowed to have relationship or get married to any employee of the hospitals. In case it happens, this person must leave our company immediately. We are a professional Sino-Euro joint venture company offering medical services. We have had our documents notarized by the Presiding Judge in Berlin. We must cultivate a positive image and  spread positive energy within the industry. The company must comply with regulations, this is the bottom line. Prof. Mayer, the founder of Gloryren and a world-renowned master in minimally invasive spine surgery, commissioned the President of the Regional Court of Berlin to notarize one document through Ms. Bünning, the Presiding Judge at the beginning of our founding. The document was stamped by the German Federal Foreign Office, and the consular legalization was done by Mr. ZHOU Anping, a Counsellor of the Embassy of the People's Republic of China in the Federal Republic of Germany. To establishing a Sino-German joint venture, I was given a signed long-term Letter of Authorization from our German shareholder. We also opened a euro account so as to make compliant remittances to European institutes. After listening my words, all the hospital presents from China and Germany were so impressed, and they were completely in awe. One of the widespread gossips or topics of conversation in China now is the relationship between WANG Shi and TIAN Pujun. The former is a real-estate tycoon and the latter is a minor star of 18th tier. A young woman with no background rose to power as a mistress by taking advantage of the resources of a big shot. And now she still claims to be a professional woman. What kind of professional woman is she? This is simply a woman with no true ability and has nothing to do with professional women at all. From a professional perspective, a case like this could not be considered as success. What could she possibly succeed in? A true professional woman must never rely on romantic relationships. A true professional woman must be elegant and shines in her own right. Those messy romantic relationships should not become a part of our professional career. Only then can we have the confidence to face the social injustice, no matter when or where it happens. We complete every single task perfectly and strive steadily for excellence in our work for hospitals and doctors. We don’t just try our best, but we go all out. This independence has nothing to do with any man. All the women in my company never rely on men. If the top beam is straight, the bottom beam will never be crooked. A good leader leads to a good follower. This is the truth of profession women. Why could we receive the respect from these 186 members of the German National Academy of Sciences Leopoldina, key academic leaders, and renowned scientists? Germany is the leading force in the European Union, whose healthcare system absolutely is the best in the world. It is the birthplace of modern medicine. That’s why we have deep roots in Germany. Comparatively, the United States couldn’t save their people from the pandemic, millions of innocent people died in the disaster; England is a “sunset” country; Canada and Australia are only followers of America; The healthcare system in Japan has been fallen apart for a long time. Collaborating with those countries is both brainless and incompetent. They simply don't understand what international healthcare entails. We have 8 colleagues in the Department of International Public Relationship, they write 28 thousand emails per year. The emails are all well written in a professional way. Every email is dictated by me in Wechat, and my colleagues will translate it into English and forward it to the relevant professor. All the meaningful things we did for Chinese healthcare could be formed into a great story. We share the same values, extraordinary ideals and lofty aspirations with 186 key academic leaders from 8 countries around the world. We must hold on to this belief and keep it deeply rooted in our heart. The 186 experts are selected from more than 2000 renowned European experts. They are friends of noble characters and refined heart, who are worthy of lifelong respect from Chinese Grade III-A hospitals and doctors. I believe we are both working partners and life-long friends. We are happy working together, and it feels special. We also told them that our country, which had endured impoverishment and long-standing debility for decades, only spent 40 years to become the world’s second-largest economy. And the fact that the New China is established by our predecessors through painstaking effort, overcoming all obstacles and fighting bravely. Every Chinese should work for our beloved China. Whether it’s a big or small matter, everything has its meaning. Because of our special stories, Gloryren becomes very famous in Europe, which also includes my father’s legendary life of a hundred years. Whoever can touch people’s hearts will be all powerful. Therefore, the key academic leaders admire us by heart, and they also want to contribute to the development of healthcare in Chinese Grade III-A hospitals, which is to help us foster more excellent doctors with global thinking and genuine talent. Is work only for money? Work is for better interpersonal relationship and a happy life. That is the real job. Starting a company does not rely on the leader, but on every employee giving it all to accomplish a great story. If you want to be beneficial to the society, the best approach is to forge yourself into an excellent talent. We remain forever young, forever moved to tears. We are able to face any difficulty at work with calm and composure. A woman who practices self-love is always the most captivating. I am engaged in what may be the most challenging form of work in the world, which is medical-related work. We are unique on a global scale. We have no rivals, only ourselves. Each year, I read nearly a hundred books. I wear my beautiful makeup and live each day as if it were a scene from a movie. I work hard, striving for strength and independence, until the very last moment of my life.